LONELY CAT

Litter-box avoidance:

Cats don't urinate outside the litter box to spite their owners. Some cats who don't go to the bathroom where we'd like them to have a medical or metabolic problem. Others are terrified of bully cats. And some don't like to do their business in a box that smells like a standing-line-only carnival porta-potty on a hot summer day. Many homes have too few litter boxes, located in the wrong places, or filled with litter that cats don't really like.

Pain management:

It's particularly challenging for veterinarians and cat owners to recognize when a cat is in pain. Cats are descended from small predators who instinctively know that if they show signs of illness, the hunter becomes the hunted. Subtle changes in a cat's interactions with the family may be a clue that pain is present. Be on the lookout for unexpected hiding, irritability, lack of appetite or just plain weird(er) behavior. While you should never give human pain meds (even the over-the-counter variety) to your cat (they can be lethal), your veterinarian can help you to ease your pet's pain with traditional and alternative medicine and with strategies to help manage the cat's environment to ease the hurt.

Keeping indoor cats busy:

Today's cats are born retired -- they've gone from mouser to moocher. Bored cats may develop medical problems and may suffer both physically and emotionally from the stress of living entirely in a man-made world. The key to stress reduction is to identify activities that make us feel better and then to do them. The easiest way to learn what an individual cat prefers (whether with treats, toys or litter box type, filler or location) is to offer alternatives and watch what she chooses.

Speaking "felinese":

You don't have to go through a language immersion course to learn what your cat is trying to tell you. The language of cats has a lot to do with non-verbal cues -- body language, in other words. A cat's tail is one of the most reliable ways to tell his emotional state. A friendly cat will carry his tail upright, with the tip tilted slightly forward. Tail-wagging is a danger sign in cats, and you'd better back off when you see it.

Feline introductions:

Cats are the least forgiving of interlopers trespassing on their turf. Don't toss the new kitty into your existing clowder to "work it out on their own," or you'll end up with the makings of a slasher film. Respect your resident cat's proper claim to territory. Confine the new cat in a single room by herself, to make both cats more comfortable during the transition period.